Strap-ons are not just for girl-on-girl action anymore. More and more heterosexual couples are indulging in harness sex. This involves the woman wearing the dildo while the man is on the receiving end. The sexual act is called pegging or bend-over-boyfriend (we love BOBs!). The prostate is the male G-spot and through stimulation via anal penetration the guy can achieve a mind-blowing orgasm that he didn’t even know was possible. For the woman top, she can experience a whole new sexual perspective as she makes her boy bottom, completely at her mercy, moan and groan. Get beyond convnetional erogenous zones and learn how to reinvent the body as a surface of multiple sources of pleasure.
The key to a successful BOB session is the right size dildo, a great harness and tons and tons of lube. If you’re not sure if it’s enough lube… add some more! The anus doesn’t produce any lubrication by itself so make sure to use enough or else the tissue can tear. Once you’ve mastered the basics of pegging, spice it up a bit. Try some role-playing, have him go down on the dildo, throw in a little lingerie (on him; I prefer my boys to wear fishnets), spank him if he’s bad… whatever your little heart desires. Just remember, fantasy (and confidence) play a huge role in all sex acts.
Stop into one of our stores and ask one of our Tulips for some advice and pick up your naughty supplies. I recommend the Spareparts harness, Tallulah dildo (it comes in 3 sizes and is even more erect than actual penis; lots of juicy p-spot penetration with this one), a thick, water-based lube of your choice (we like Hydra Smooth), Bend Over Boyfriend, Bend Over Boyfriend 2, and the Strap-Attack! series (for your viewing pleasures).
If you’re in the mood for a little reading, pick up The Adventurous Couples’ Guide to Strap-On Sex by Violet Blue. It’s a quick read on everything you want to know from how to ask for it to fun things to do while fucking him. It even includes some erotic stories to get your mind full of naughty thoughts. Some other reading suggestions include: She’s On Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel, My Girlfriend Comes to the City to Beat Me Up by Stephen Elliot, Boy in the Middle: Erotic Fiction and Public Sex: Essays by Patrick Califia.